Brother Pay

You know bosy...i think we are so alike can. cos we like to write "somtin" in postcards etc but reveal the contents via other means(in person or..now blog) before the item gets into the recipient's hands! haha...so freaky....

anyway....i'm suppose to write my essay now but happened to chance upon my brother's nick, and it made me quite sad. here's his nick:
"I LUV HELL its warm and cosy in there!WTF! Put yr name then add me!! 2e3blah SUX and I HATE RUNESCAPEpls shut that word!!"

Did that shock you? Yeah it did to me. Just like the time he went mad and gave me blue-blacks on my arm and legs(near gerard's!). Makes me wonder if i still know this brother as of now. And it emphasizes my Harris' point about how people react differently to their family as compared to their friends. I'm praying that brother pay is not in some bad company and his "crazy" behaviors wun tag him forever throughout his life. I have tried talking to him many times but now he has reached his "buddha state" in which he just ignores. He's very spoilt and likes to order my mum around...but i guess he did those stuff partly due to observational learning from her sis here....sigh...and of cos from my big sis and dad too la...the rudeness and all.
And it is so true that a psychologist or counsellor for that matter cannot counsel their own family members cos....their just too emotionally involved. Brings the point that....psychologists and counsellors are just humans like everybody. Can't escape that emotional burden....

I guess that brings the point that when we were to counsel anybody, we must respect the person's irrationality as not of stupidity or selfishness...but as someone who cannot see things clearly when their lens are fogged up.
I hope my brother becomes fine..before everything is too late..............................

with love,
Bosy