Extract from my sexuality notes

"By a certain age, most modern men have been so surfeited with images of unattainably beautiful women in preposterous contexts that we risk losing the capacity to respond to the ordinarily beautiful women we love in our bedrooms. There have been too many times when i have guiltily resorted to the impersonal fantasy because the genuine love i felt for a woman wasnt enough to convert feeling into performance."

How true is that?